I really don't need the expense of a new wardrobe after I eat all the meals all of you have offered:)
I can't begin to say thank you enough for making sure we won"t starve! With that being said Karlene has asked that you just be patient about a day to bring food. She has communicated with several of you and assigned some days. After a week or so Rick and I should be able to handle things on our own but I will send out a smoke signal if not.
Today I visited with the genetic oncologist. I thought this would be of value to my daughters and nieces to know if my cancer gene is genetic. But in the hour long conversation I decided it has value for me too. Since I know I have cancer in both breasts I am at an increased risk for ovarian cancer if I have the genetic gene. But it is a very expensive test and insurance does not always cover the cost. After I find out what they will pay I will make my decision to proceed or not. Another doctor checked off my list.
Tomorrow is a "free" day. I am so looking forward to not spending the day in a doctor's office or hospital! Just wish we had some spring weather to enjoy!
Wednesday is back to the grind. I will meet with a physical therapist at 9 and learn some pre-surgery exercises. After that I am off for chest x-ray, EKG and blood work in preparation for the surgery.
The rest of the week is for anything I choose to do. We are having dinner with some dear friends Thursday evening and going to enjoy their company. No other real plans in place but some how our social calendar fills up. I just want to be able to sit on the deck and enjoy some nice weather. For some reason there might be some golf in Rick's future too!
Many of you have asked to be notified after the surgery. Rick or Karlene will post on the blog as soon as they know anything. I found out today that surgery is not scheduled until 10:30 on Tuesday and I will be in surgery for at least 3 hours. I know things never run on time in a hospital so don't worry if it is late in the day before they are able to write anything.
Thanks again for everything. I have been trying to write thank you notes but I am so overwhelmed that I just keep procrastinating. Please know that I appreciate all the things you have done.
I have been reading some devotional books the last few days. I know God is in control.
I loved the tip I read today: "Surround yourself with a good support system. It is easier to give help than to receive it, but let your support team help you as you need it."
Thanks to a wonderful support team.
Donna,
ReplyDeletePlease know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Praying that you feel God's loving arms tightly around you.
Love, Kyle Beyer